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Lying In Her Arms, He Looked Up At Her And Said …

Back in the 70’s there were only 2 or 3 TV channels. So just about everyone watched - or knew about - the same shows and this brought people together in a way today's kids will never understand. The TV show “Dallas” about a family of wealthy Texas oil tycoons was a massive hit. The…
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How Bonnie Revolutionized Her Relationship!

Bonnie walked in looking upset. Because I had seen her many times over the past few months, I guessed that the source of her concern was her relationship. She sat down and opened her heart … She was having issues with her husband Todd. Todd liked to hang out with the boys, but when she…
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When The War Is Over …

I hate war. I even hate the word, because war causes the greatest suffering. Even so, I used to love watching M*A*S*H, because the war was a metaphor for how to deal with life’s inevitable challenges and the fickle fate we’re all subject to. In one episode Hawkeye got angry with Radar for his naively…
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If You Love Me Let Me Go

It is 4am in the morning. I am wide awake - mainly because I have a heavy heart and I'm feeling sad and conflicted. I wrote this for someone very precious who I felt needed permission to let me go, so they could to grow. I wanted these words to express to her that I…
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